POWER UP YOURSELF 

Since birth I was told that I would not be able to do normal functioning things that any other human would be able to do. My parents delivered me unexpectedly and as a result i was born with the neurological disability Congenital Hypomyelinating Neuropathy. This disability sounds complicated but it really isn't. This disability comes with barrier's but it doesn't come with limitations.

Since I was 6 months old I have been breaking barriers put on me. They never thought I would be able to eat out of a bottle and I did. they never thought I would be able to crawl and I did. they never thought I would be able to talk and as you can see I do. they never thought I would be able to walk and I walk with my crutch anywhere I need to go. They never thought I would make it in a college or university and I graduated and went on to graduate school. 

So as you can see all my life I have been breaking barriers. When I turned 21 years old I met the love of my life and we got married at 23 and had two beautiful daughters. People never thought someone would marry a person with a disability and yet I broke that barrier as well. They never thought I would be able to have kids and we prove them wrong. 

I am telling you all this because I want you to understand that the only way I was able to do this was through God and the power of my thoughts. If we had listened to all of the negative things everyone was telling me

I would never be able to do the things that I'm doing now. 

Anything you think you can do, shows that you can actually do it. you just have to figure out how. 

The reason why I chose to be a life coach is because I have learned through talking to my friends, family, and people in my community that they are inspired by the things I have accomplished because I didn't give up. 

I am the neighborhood counselor and the family life coach. Everyone comes to me about things going on in their life. Most times they come to me just to talk and I simply give them a positive word 2 adjust to. I never judge them or the situation I never tell them what I would do unless I have actually did it and I never ever put them down because of the decisions they have made.

For the longest I didn't understand why people looked at me as a inspiration but then I realize it's because I didn't give up. Anytime anything came my way that look hard to accomplish I prayed and then I started thinking about positive things that I could do to conquer that goal. 

As a result of doing this even after going through a divorce from the person I am still in love with I learned how to control my thoughts. 

After going through my divorce in 2014 my spirit begin to go on a roller coaster of emotions. I went from being angry to being hurt to being sad to accepting my situation. A lot of days I questioned why I was the one chosen to now be a divorce mother still dealing with my ex-husband.

Everything I had learned in those 31 years of life all felt like lies. no one had ever prepared me for heartbreak no one had ever prepared me for a mental breakdown no one had ever prepared me to be a divorced woman and no one ever prepared me to be the only parent in the home. 

As you can imagine my mind was everywhere I honestly could not control nothing I was thinking. If I was angry I had to express it I could not control my communication I could not control how I talk to him I could not control the words I chose to use. 

2014 and 2015 took so much from me that it took me all of 2016 to understand that my thoughts were taking me places I really didn't want to go. Take it I was still working from home on social media putting up a front as if every single day was perfect. I never express my real pain on social media except the day I divorced him in August of 2014. 

In 2016 I began to learn about the law of attraction. I learned that I was just putting myself through more pain than needed because I was thinking so many crazy thoughts about the divorce that I was driving myself crazy. I mean anything you can think of when going through a divorce I thought and most times expressed to him. 

I mean this was not healthy and I knew this was not going to end good if I continued thinking and acting out like this. First of all it was taking a toll on the friendship I had with my ex-husband. I would be happy when he came around but when he wasn't around I was the worst person ever to him. It was also making me angry with my daughters when I communicated with them most times all I did was holler instead of talk to them like a normal person. And honestly my business was failing instead of succeeding I wasn't earning any money and I was still joining different companies like crazy.

So I knew it was time for me to look at myself and remove anything negative out of my life and thoughts and make me better.

When I encountered the law of attraction in 2016 it changed my life forever. it instantly resonated with me because of the way it was broken down. 

I instantly learned about manifestation and attracting things into your life through the POWER of your thoughts. 

I learn anything you think about consistently will definitely happen in your life. And when I learned this I started evaluating my life and started thinking about when I started thinking about certain things and realize that I really had manifested those things into my life. 

I had the perfect marriage. And I started thinking about things and speaking things over my marriage without realizing it and eventually those negative things started happening and our marriage ended. 

I also thought about the days that I was in college when I did not like going to school. I kept quitting and that was because I was in a situation where no one else went to school so it didn't make sense and the negative people around me had me feeling as though it was okay to stop school. 

When I got out of that situation and started dating my ex husband he encouraged me to go to back to school he change my thoughts about school and as a result I ended up graduating and furthering my education.

I'm telling you all this because I want you to understand the only reason I am walking in success right now is because I changed the way I was thinking. I had to change the way I was thinking in regards to my failed marriage, going back to school, communicating with my children, and wanting a better life. 

Once I change my thoughts to only positive thoughts In different situations everything got better for me. 

First of all since changing the way I think I now see everything in a positive way no matter what is going on around me no matter what is trying to come at me I always look at it and pull the positive from it. 

When I moved to Las Vegas in 2016 with my daughters we moved in a two-story home my sister as I told you I am disabled and so is my youngest daughter so in order for us to get up the steps we had to literally crawl up the steps and slide down the steps. There were times when I would try to walk down the steps and I would split and next thing you know I'm at the bottom of the steps I would look back and say well I got here quicker than I needed to I guess that's a positive in it. LoL. 

As you can see I could have looked at the negative and went crazy but what good what would that do.

So when you learn in every situation you have to look at the positive you will start seeing everything in a much better life. 

It takes about 7 consistent days to really change the way you think about anything. 21 days to break a bad habit and 60 days to see any results. Especially if you have strong views on it. however it is strictly on you to control the way your mind interprets what is being presented to you. No matter what.

I decided that I would offer anyone willing a FREE 30 MINUTE CLARITY session so that they can see how effective changing their thoughts 

can be in their life.

It does not require you to do anything but change the way you think and apply the material given to you for the next 7 days and you will see exactly how positive thinking can equal a positive mindset which will equal a positive lifestyle with positive outcomes.

Thank you for taking the time to read my why I hope it inspires you to want to do better and change the way you think. If I can create a positive lifestyle from all the negative things that have taken place in the last 35 years of my life I'm almost positive you can create a positive lifestyle from your current situation.

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